Since we broke up he's accused me of stealing his money, and it hurts me to see him with someone else. What should I do?

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I was in a relationship for over a year with this gentalman, he had circumstances that came up and we went through some changes, and he kept accusing me of cheating and seeing other people. So therefore, he told me to go to the bank and withdraw some money to pay a bill (this is not a joint account) this is personal account so I did, but I didn't pay it until 3 days later. So when he got back in town we had a huge argument that resulted in us breaking up and him just saying this that was awful to me and kept accusing me of things that I had never done. So it's been about two months since our break up and since then I have seen with this other woman and he is not hiding it, nor has he talked to me since he came home and he said that everything is my fault and has since told people that I stole his money. So I told him that while he was accusing me of seeing other he had her all the time, but it is hard for me to let go because I love him so much that it hurts for me to see him with someone else. So what should I do. I just can't get over him.

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