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writes: I really need advice on what to do with my best friend. A couple of weeks ago she was assaulted by another girl on a night out and was taken home in an ambulance. I spoke to her on the phone (I wasnt with her at the time) and she seemed ok and I said I would call the next day. I have tried calling and she wont answer her phone or reply to my texts. For 2 weeks she has just completely ignored me. All our other friends havnt heard from her either. Im worried cos shes had mental problems in the past paranoia and depression. Im also angry that shes shutting me out like this and feel like just letting her be. I really miss her too. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): I think you should give her time to gather her thoughts and emotions. She had mental problems before and I think thats all the more reason not to invade her space. You also need to consider that she could be getting help from her family at the moment. You shouldn'y t be angry about her shutting you out. Remember that all her other friends know as little as you and its not a personal attack on you. Just make sure you there wen she does need your aid. MY BEST WISHES FOR BOTH YA'LL
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