A
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41-50,
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writes:[Mod note: I think it's safe to assume that the poster is not between the ages of 26-29.]A new teacher came to my school this year and I don't have him except for roll call in the mornings. But my friend has him for geography, and she is the type that all the girls in my year are jealous of and all the guys have fancied at one stage or another.This new teacher is a bit "nice" to her. He talks to her and no one else in the class about random things like his shoes and asking her if she is impressed by him scoring goals for his football team.He has asked her to step on a wobbly cabinet to turn on the projector on the ceiling which was closer to him and he checked out her ass while she did this.He told us he was going to be 26 in a couple of days and then turned to her and told her that he wasn't much older than her.He was supervising us during an exam and it took me ages to get his attention for more paper because he was clearly staring at her and then went to her to ask her how she was getting on in his exam and kept giving her answers even though he told her a lot of the questions that would be coming up beforehand.She isn't one to catch on to things like this quickly, but the rest of my year are all convinced that he has a thing for her.What do you think?Is there anything that we should do?
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reader, Francesca91  +, writes (11 December 2009):
This is a very sententive subject as this will effect alot of people's lives. The best thing to do would be to talk to a member of staff, but do no try to sound as if you are accusing him. His behaviour is inappropraite and by talking to another member of staff, this behaviour (whether intentional or not) needs to be amended. In the mean time try not allow rumours to spread as this will only upset your friend and possibly an innocent man.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 December 2009):
If you are worried then go and talk to another teacher about it.
It COULD all be perfectly innocent, and he may just be messing about but this kind of gossip is really dangerous to a male teacher. So you could be doing him a favour by getting another teacher to have a word with him.
Men and women of his age will often flirt with everyone and not mean anything by it. But he really should not be flirting or anything else at school because it's so easy for teenagers to take it the wrong way.
Good Luck!! xx
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