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writes:I am really confused. I am a single mom of 3 beautiful children, their father refuses to be in their lives, and I feel bad about dating because they do not need to see their mom go in and out of relationships. I dated a guy almost a year ago, we will call him "old ex". I broke it off with him because he didn't seem too interested in me, well he is shy just as I am. Anyways last year in July I bought concert tickets for my bday. I was head over heels for this guy, he was perfect in every way possible. Now, I just broke it off with my "new ex" because he was too involved in drugs and alcohol. He treated me excellent. Both men, now are far away from me, but I want my "old ex" back. He now lives in germany on a military base, and he didn't call me when he said he would, cause he is back in the US for a funeral. I was online a few days before he came back, and I all of a sudden got a IM from him, out of nowhere, I did not expect to ever hear from him again. He told me that he loved me and that he did not know how to tell me, and that he wanted to marry me and bring me and my kids to germany with him forever. I was just in a relationship, and I wanted to tell my "old ex" that I broke up with my "new ex" the night before, but I lied and told him that I was engaged still. I finally told him that I was single again when he said that if we were still together, I would be moved to germany already. I was speechless when he told me. I didn't know what else to say. Like I said I was head over heels for that man, and now, I don't know what to do..... my "new ex" wants to work things out, but he don't know that I ran into my "old ex" and I want to be with him so badly, I would run off and get married to him in a heart beat, but like I said, he hasn't called me, so I am wondering why he has not yet. Any advice?????????
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 Whatever you do, don't get back with your new ex! If you want a man who is into drugs in your life then you are stupid!!! The old ex sounds good, and so does a new start in germany. Contact him and tell him that you love him, get back with him but tell him that you need more interest than he was giving you when you we're together originally. X
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