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writes: i dated this woman for about 7 months, and we have been broken up for a couple months now, and i still want to be with her and i honestly feel that she still wants me. we have been hanging out A LOT lately and talking on the phone as much now as when we were together. she has told me that she has a fear of commitment, and that i need to be more aggressive. we go walking and hang out a lot and i've been wondering if it is a good idea to grab her hand while we are walking or hanging out(whichever) and pull her close to me and kiss her. cuz to me that sounds agressive and kinda romantic at the same time. i love this woman and i now that there is a lot more to come btween us. but is this idea a good one or should i wait and she what she does? or be aggressive and take charge and do it myself? please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2006): You sound like you care deeply and she knows it. I get the feeling she's toying with you otherwise why would you two be just dancin' around each other. Lots of women like to flaunt their power over adoring men. But, when two people have dated for 7 months, then break up because she states that 'you aren't aggressive enough'...what does that tell you? A relationship is a situation where two people respect and accept each other, as is-quirks and all. If you aren't an aggressive, take charge man-don't try to be that way. Just be yourself. I would sit her down and tell her exactly how you feel about her-then sit back and wait for her to answer. It's a risk but that is exactly what love is. Be honest and open with your feelings and just see where it goes from there. Good luck!
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