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anonymous
writes: HI at work there was a big ta do with my boss at the time and myself..to this day I see him glancing over at me...he goes hot and cold and I won't deal with the emotional flip flop anymore so I avoid him or at least don't look at him if I have to be in close proximity...this seems to make him look or glance more some days??? He never came to me about the 'to doo' it was all handled behind the scenes thru our HR department. It has been a year.. Today he came into my department to ask me something about a product he had to research..come to find he asked others the same question..he can't seem to look me in the face...but from a far. I wish i could just have peace, but it's been so long ago now that we never even talked about it on e on one..Im not sure what to do...I guess just let it go?? I'm up for possible promotion to be a boss my self in a few months..should I confront him peaceable about all of it sometime when it seems quiet?? In the meanwhile I always help and assist him as need be?? We used to have fun Idunno.... thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): Sometimes it's better not to try and put a bow on things. Just let it go and move on.
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reader, fi_the_tree +, writes (20 December 2010):
If you feel you need that peace of mind, then yes, maybe clearing the air would be a good idea. It's been a year, surely there are no grudges to be held against anyone. A happy workforce is a productive work force, and if someone isn't fully happy the something should be done about it.
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