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writes:This guy and I, we'll call him jack, dated for almost a year before we had some problems and I broke up with him. We tried to be friends but we ended up getting into argument after argument because of the break up which neither of us wanted. We said horrible, horrible things to each other, and he said some really bad things about my friend as well becasue he blamed her for the breakup. We worked through it and became friends again but the pattern kept repeating itself. Something would remind us of our break up or a current bf/gf and we'd start fighting. We just recently started talking the other day but we seem to be getting better, we're able to talk about things without it generating into fights and insults. The thing is, because of everything he's done and how bad he's hurt me, all of my friends HATE him. I want to try to be friends with him, but I know my friends won't understand and that they'll be extremely mad at me. Should I try to be friends with him still? Or am I crazy to want to be?
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reader, TimmD +, writes (18 May 2010):
 Give it a second try was good, but usually if it keeps happening... it's going to KEEP happening.
Listen to your friends, they have a habit of seeing things more clearly. And in the end, they are most likely just trying to protect you.
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