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writes: Im in love with my best friend who's also a girl, i'm bisexual but she is confused whether or not she is.ive completly fell for her, and ive told her recently and she was very understanding and has said she is very flattered, but she was with her boyfriend and im her best friend.I always tried and made myself to be better than her boyfriend so she would notice me more and put myself out there for her, but she recently broke up with him and ive been there for her through it all.But shes always very close to me, she trusts me with everything and she will always make me smile when im feeling abit low, im just thinking will she one day love me back?what should i do?.Should I try and get over her or wait around and see if she does love me back?help!
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reader, Breathtakinq  +, writes (12 August 2009):
Honestly sweetie,
this really isnt something we can decide for you. This is something that you have to think about & decide for yourself. I learned from a very wise person to Listen To Your Heart. If you feel in your heart that you want to wait for her to love you than wait. But dont wait forever, because after a while, you may have to move on.
Maybe it would be a good idea to talk to her about this. Ask her if she has any feelings towards you. But dont push her, she just broke up with her boyfriend so she may be grieving from that.
Help her through it, and maybe after she realizes what she has in front of her, someone who loves and cares about her, she may begin to develop feelings for you too.
=) I hope I helped.
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