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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: The guy I dated all of a sudden told me he got scared and needed time. He said he is very very attracted to me, loves hanging out with me. Honestly i don't get it. We had very good chemistry. We only dated for a month and didn't have sex.. He said he was'nt interested in more because he didn't feel in love(!)Well, I don't either, because we've only seen eachother five times, but I like hanging out with him and I'm attracted to him..:( He said we should meet after his exam, and I texted him and he said that he wanted to hang out but he couldnt do it until his exam is finished (in a week), and that he would have more time after this. I just feel like seeing him again. He's moving to another town in august, so I really want to see him again. I felt that everything got really bad when we last talked (over the telephone he said he didn't want anything more, but would love to hang out with me). Should I text him in a week and ask for a meet?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2011): What he's telling you is he doesn't see you as someone he COULD fall in love with. I really wouldn't waste your time on him.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (14 June 2011):
I actually think the best thing for you to do is to let him come to you. He has explained he is not wanting any more at the moment even though he is interested in you. My guess is this is because he is moving away soon plus he is in the middle of his exams so I am sure he is busy. If he wants to see you he will text you so let him be the one to do it.
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