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36-40,
*ifi the1st
writes: Ok just a quick problem. I was going out with a guy I really liked for 5 months. He broke up with me because he didn't have time for a relationship but ended up going out with another girl. He is texting me again asking how I am and stuff. Should I tell him where to go or text him back?? I don't have feelings for him just as a friend. Thanks.
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reader, voodoo +, writes (23 November 2007):
I'll play devils advocate here and ask why you are posting on here if you don't have feelings for him. If you want him as a friend then reply with an upbeat non commital text if you don't want him in your life then leave it. Also consider that not texting back will make it seem that perhaps you are still bitter about him breaking up with you.In my opinion the best way to come out of this is just to reply in a friendly way with something short like "hi,I'm good thanks"
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2007): Let him know (by not texting) if he didn't had time for a relationship now it is you who don't have the time to text him back.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (23 November 2007):
Time for you to have the cake, tell him to eat it.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (23 November 2007):
No, do not text him back.
-Frank B Kermit
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