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writes:I really, really like this guy I met a year ago in a meeting. He then had to move away, but I manage to contact him by email. Since then, we've being in touch by email and have become friends, sharing thoughts, updating on stuff happening around each other, sharing pics, jokes, etc.The thing is the other day I called him, and I thought he didn't liked it, cuz he was rather surprised so I cut it short cuz I was pretty nervous.I felt awful,so the next day I send him a note thanking him for being nice to me and I wanted to continue in touch.he replied right away saying that there was no need to thanked him b/c he enjoys our friendship and comm. and that we'll keep in touch.Now, after all this Idk if saying something may ruin the whole thing we have at all, clear this from my chest and tell him how I feel although he doesn't feel the same or give it more time or what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (29 June 2008):
Well to be honest I wouldn't tell him.
What would it achieve? Nothing.
You'd both feel embarrassed and the chances are he would stop contacting you as much because he wouldn't want to lead you on.
Keep it to yourself and work on being friends with him. Perhaps he will fall for you in time, perhaps he won't, ut you'll have him as a friend. Just don't let that stop you from moving on and falling for someone who likes you back.
Good Luck!! xx
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