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Should I Tell My BF About Them And How That Guy Had Feelings For Me?

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Question - (28 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 February 2007)
A female South Africa age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi!

I have a female friend which is now involved with a guy that was in love with me. I never ever felt anything for him because I just wanted a friendship, no relationship. My boyfriend was always under the impression that we had something going on. I told him about them and he asked me if I was lying to him and I told him no.

Did I do the wrong thing by telling him? I just feel that he should know because they come and visit me and what if they are there and he gets other ideas?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007):

What is wrong with being open and honest? You have done the right thing, if he cannot handle it then that is not your fault. Like you said if they did visit then he might of got the wrong impression. Don't worry and stick at being this open and honest.

Take care

xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007):

What is wrong with being open and honest? You have done the right thing, if he cannot handle it then that is not your fault. Like you said if they did visit then he might of got the wrong impression. Don't worry and stick at being this open and honest.

Take care

xx

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