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writes:rite so i've been involved with a guy for just over 3 months now.when i met him he was broken up from his gf, but since then he has got back together with her, and they have collectivly been goin out for nearly 2 years.When he had got back with her he had finishd with me, for that reason, but only a few days later he told me he missd me, and we slowly worked back to how we were..even though i knew there was a chance he was still with her. He never actualy told me he was still with her, but i know now for certain that he is, and we've had conversations about it since.He's told me that he doesnt want to be with her anymore, but is just finding it hard to find away of ending it all after so long.But i feel like i'm falling in love with him..it seems now, that he's happy with her, and it's obvious that he's still having sex with her.Although he's tried it with me, i wouldnt let him go that far, because of the situation.I rele dont know what to do, i know that i should talk to him about how crummy i feel.But i just dont want it to end.In a way id prefer to be with him knowing he's still with her, then not at all..
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reader, chica_23  +, writes (5 January 2008):
if you feel this bad dont let it continue. If he truly likes you more than her, he can have this honest conversation and still pick you. If he chooses her or breaks up with you he obviously wasnt worth it. It may be hard to let go in the beginning but dont end up hurting yourself over his past romance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): It hard dear I know but this is ridiculous. You dont deserve to be traeted like this. You are not a toy and are definately not HIS toy. Show him what he is missing by trying to move on. If he is with her, yes that will burt. But dont be the person that he cheats on her with. If you got together and he left her, he would prob cheat on you with others and he would know that you are willing to except any kind of behaviour from him. Deep down you know that what they have is not special. If it were special then hed have no reason to be chasing you too. You deserve better and the quicker you see that the better. You are young and there is so much out there. You need to change the scene, mourn your loss and move on. You will find someone who will treat you the way you need to be treated. The quicker you show him that you are worth more than he is giving you the more respect you will feel for yourself and he will have towards you. Good luck!
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