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writes:Alright so there's this guy (lol I know) I've known him since I was 4 years old literally. he is my neighbour. I look out my window and I can see his house. Last sunday my mom went to his house to ask for help with something and if he wanted to go tubing at camelback in pennsylvania. We talked and he said I maybe able too. Later he texted me and said this:Hey Zahira im not really crazy about tubing cuz ive gotten my fill of snow at school but I was wondering if you wanted to see a movie when you got back from camel back.I said Yeah sure what time and he said he'll tell me tomorrow.Tomorrow came around I talked to him in the morning since my parents left me to go skiing. I asked him in the morning (it was like 11:30) and he said he still doesn't know. Anyway I invited my friend over before we went so she texted him and was all lets double date and some otehr things. We just hung out and stuff.Later I called him and he said:I thought I told you I'm at a friends house. Anyway my friend and I were just goofing.I was so annoyed because we are friends we walk home and talk to each other on the bus and in the morning at out bus stop even in school. Our moms are friends so I don't understand why he did that. I don't even think he wrote that but yet I think he did.He texts me but I have ignored him for 2 days and he sent me something saying isn't this guy stupid and it's blank. Should I break my two days or go for the whole week? This sunday he leaves to go back to new Hampshire since he switched schools recently. What should I do I really need help right now!Thanks so much!!Love Confused
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwanna know something funny we are going out now I ignored him for pretty much 8 months and then in december he texted me saying he was home so i asked would he like to hang out not expecting he would say anything and he said yes. so we went to the movies and i acted normal and not like i had a crush on him or anything and later he asked me out and i said yes. so we ahve been going out for a month now.
i dont't really remember what i did in this situation though but thank you all for this advice :D just wanted to tell you what happened.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008): talk to him you may never see him again tell him how u feel maybe he might feel the same way go for it what have u got to loose!111
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (23 February 2008):
 If he was doing this in the presence of other friends it very well could have been pranks to impress.
Peer pressure can cause people to do all sorts of things they would not normally do, even to those whom they may care about.
If I were you I would try to talk to him without any of his friends around and confront him about this. You may find that he regrets what he has done if indeed this is the situation. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont want him to lose interest I really like him but I dont understand what brought him to do that. We aren't really close just like friendly. Should I bring up why he did that to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): you need to talk to him sweetness, take it from a person who knows, i lost one of my best guy friends because of my pride and have kicked myself since.just say your gunna miss him when he leaves you have been friends for a long time.dont lose a friend for a misunderstanding it's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): It depends, do you want him to lose interest or not?
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