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*ebecca.megan
writes:I really like this lad in the year above me, we've known each other for ages and i can talk to him about almost anything. But i'm not sure whether he likes me too in that way, or just as a mate as i keep getting mixed signals from him. I don't know whether to take a chance with him? Or is there maybe any signs i should look out for just to give me a hint in what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008): I think you should tell him how u feel. Maybe hint at first, but if u really like him, u shud just go for it! Don't be scared to say because he might say that he likes u too! And even if he doesn't then u might become better friends from it, and who knows where that cud lead?
Good luck, and keep us updated on it!
xx Hope xx
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (8 March 2008):
 Take out a sheet of paper. Fold it hot-dog style. Write on the left side of it the signs he has given you that show that he likes you. Write on the right side of it the signs he has given you that show that he doesn't like you. Now you decide what you will do, but I am telling you that if you end up with more on the left than on the right, you should ask him out.
Good luck.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (8 March 2008):
 If you don't tell him, you may both pass up the chance of a lifetime.
I lost my true love about 30 years ago because I didn't tell her how I felt about her and she found someone else. I found out later that she really loved me, but then it was too late. It almost ended up in my suicide. Let him know.
By the way I have been happily married now for 28 years to another as of the 20th of this month.
I do still miss her though. Doc
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reader, Entirely Unique +, writes (8 March 2008):
 All the time he's giving mixed signals you're unsure on where he stands regarding you, you've got nothing to lose by telling him how you feel but you could have something to gain.
If he doesn't feel the same then at least you then know and can get on with your life and try your best to let go of what you feel for him but all the time you don't know one way or another you're stuck constantly wondering and tearing yourself up with 'does he, doesn't he' thoughts.
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