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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My ex-husband and I have been dating on and off since our divorce and have a six year old daughter. After our divorce he got involved with another woman and has been living with her for several years and has a child with her.He is not working and is needing his parents to help make ends meet and has started attending classes at a local trade college. He tells me that this ex-girlfriend he lives with has moved on and that they are just friends. He has his own room and they have not been intimate together for a year.He is saying he needs to continue to live with her so his parents will help out financially, so he can finish school, and so he can get better custody/visitation of his other child.I have been going back and forth and it seems weird to me that we are supposedly together yet he doesn't call me at night or on the weekends. By the way he lives three hours away in a different city. He never comes to visit, I have to go to him. He says that if this ex-girlfriend knew it would hurt all the above reasons.Is he playing me again or should I believe that he really wants to be together. If anyone has any advice I would be grateful.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): Deep down you know the answer. He's leading a double life and has you both on the go. Issue the ultimatum if you like. Me or Her. But really, if he was that interested he'd be with you anyway without the ultimatum. Just set things up so he can see his child. Then find yourself a man who is dedicated to you only. This is what you deserve. Good luck.x
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