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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Basically, about two years ago, i met this guy Conor on facebook through some friends. we got talking and we became fairly good friends, and our conversations were funny. he would tell me Love you xx at the end of almost every comment etc, and he always helped me out when i needed him. i was falling for him.I came across a bit too keen however, as i talked to him a lot more than he talked to me. I think i may have been embarassing!! But he always said we should do something and meet up, and i always tried to confirm something but it never happened. I would see him in town, and it would be very awkward, like a Hi Hello sort of thing.He became friends with some of my other friends, and we grew further apart. They knew i liked him and it must have caught on etc. About 7 months ago i got teased by his friends, and so i came clean, even though our conversations now had become quite short and awkward. He simply replied, oh okay haha. yeah the others told me. And logged off.I was quite upset, i was not expecting him to reciprocate the feelings as i am way out of his league, but at least a kind Thanks for letting me know, i had a feeling but i know it takes guts. I am sorry i dont feel the same way, but we can still be friends if you want.I told him that i hope things dont become awkard. He never replied, and i havent spoken to him since even though i have seen him several times it has been awkward silence and he ignores me completely.The other day i was going through old messages and found our conversations. i simply miss him. I dont want to fall for him again, it hurt too much. I just miss our conversations, they were very easy going and funny and i was just myself. I am so sad he couldnt see past my not amazing looks, but still remains very good friends with my so-called friends. It really hurts me.The question is, should i just pluck up the courage and act cool and just say on facebook Hey its been ages, obviously last time we talked was a little awkward haha. How've you been?or should i carry on completely ignoring him as if i never knew him. He seems to be doing fine wihtout me, and i am sure he has had many laughs with his friends at my expense. I feel like he doesnt deserve me, but at the same time, i just wish things were back as they were when we were just friends. Here are some examples of how he used to tlak with me:ahahahe sed tht about me!i swer im gna fukin break his neck mansuch a lil sly c*ntooooooo well its petty and pathetic bit like himc*ntbt i lav u sooooooxhah naaaa mate u jst simply copy my barsahaha naaaaaaaaat im such a lil sly fly guy on tht onehahahau areeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee pre so shaupimmmmmm off naaaaaaaaleave me smin nyceeeeeaheheheu av a ballwhilst ill be hme recovering to get smashed if u can work tht outahah we have to meet soon anyway josen get lils dwnahahlove you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxu so areeeeeeeeeeeehotub party 2nitethorpe park tomosresults thurlondon friahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhcramned my week upeeeeeeeeekim off naaaaaaagta russel up sme lunchlove u mredurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrri cant hold my breth for tht longhhahaxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you very much for your response!
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reader, daisy_doll  +, writes (17 April 2010):
I was once in a similar situation. And my best advice. Move on. The fact that he backed out so quickly, and that he has not tried to resume contact. It ended unfortunately. Keep the happy memories, but continue forwards to bigger and better things.
Good Luck :)
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