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writes:hey everyone...i have been really upset for the last few days :'(I was with this guy for nine months but he also has another girlfriend, when we wee together we used to meet up twice a week for a catch up and a cuddle, a few days we had sex but our relationship wasnt based round making love. The other night we had a small arguement and in the heat of the moment i said ' is that why u wanted to be with me sooooo u would get some loving ' as you can imagine he was very happy about that but i didnt mean it. Anyways my ex keeps talking to me saying that i never wanted it to last between us and just things like that :\ he is totally wrong because i am sooooo in love with him and wanted to spend the rest of my life with him but he cant see that :\My questions are: Should i move on from this or should i try get back with him ??Do u think he was using me ??Will he ever forgive me ??Please dont judge me on this situation beacuse i know its wrong but u cant help who u fall in love with...any comments and advice would b much appreciated :) Thankyou x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 Your very welcome!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for your advice :) x
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (4 January 2012):
Yes it is going to be very hard. You just need to try and be strong and avoid him at all costs. Stand your ground and tell him you are not going to be second best any longer and that you do not want to have anything to do with him any more. Be civil to each other but keep it at that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for your advice :) but i cant have no contact with him because ww share the same friends and out parents always hang out :\ it is going to be hard but how can i deal with this ??x
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 sounds like he saw you as a friend with 'benifits" so i guess you should move on down the road. I'd suggest your next bf be monogomous first though.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 January 2012):
Yes you should be move on from this man. He is the one that is in the wrong here not you. You knew all along that you where just the other woman because he had another girlfriend. So in my eyes that just shows that he is not interested in settling in to a relationship, he just wants to play the field. He must have thought he struck gold when you agreed to get with him even though you knew he was with someone else as well. I understand that you have falling for him and it is going to be hard now for a while, but you need to see that he was never serious about you, or else he would not have been with anybody else. It is time to cut contact from him and give yourself some time to heal. Then go out and find someone who is worthy of your time and love and who will be yours and only yours. Good luck.
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