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writes: Hey everyone! Thanks for showing interest in my question! Here's my situation: I've been talking to this guy who I've become really interested in. He definitely has dating potential because he's handsome, intellectual and I can grow to like him but right now we're talking to each other online as friends. Lately, we've both been talking about how we want to get ready for the summer by getting more in shape...I'm a "big girl" who would love to lose weight yet I've been fairly comfortable with my body just the same. He on the other hand is just trying to build muscle. Well, our last couple of conversations, he has suggested to me that we should get together and work out with each other, using each other as motivation. I don't know how to feel about the idea because yeah, it would be great being that we haven't met yet and it could be a way for me to get closer to him but how awkward would it be for him to see me huffing and puffing and sweating lol. What is everyone's take on this? Is it a good idea or a bad idea?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): i think it sounds like a fantastic idea!
Having a common interest will be great.
Im not about to go into the safety thing as im sure you know and are well aware of the dangers.
Go on have fun! you never know this could be the start of something wonderful :)
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