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writes:My boyfriend live abroad so I dont get to see him much.. He is older than me.. but it works. age is just a number after all (and no. not STUPIDLY older). Ive known him for such a long time and we are both ready to take things to the next level... He isnt a virgin. I am. I truly love this guy. And asking me if im sure I love him? yes, I am 100% sure.I know, I know, you hear these kinds of questions all the time...Do you think I should while he still lives abroad? He is visiting in three weeks time. I waited all this time for the right person and I really want it to be him. Another thing- if I sleep with him this time he is here, and he cant come back for a while.. will it hurt the next time too?oh and if you would say try oral... Im comfortable him giving it to me but not the other way around right now- I dont know what I'm doing. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wouldnt say its unfair as I will do it I just dont feel comfortable yet...
he knows what he is doing + I dont...
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Hmmmmmm....well if you are the type of person who is not clingy, and I mean not clingy, at all, go for it. If you are not religious, go for it.
But if you are religious, and you would feel guilty later, don't. If you are clingy, don't.
And you sound alittle clingy. Everyone who is in love is.
If you are having doubts this shows that you are not ready.
Sorry.
Best wishes,
Amanda
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2008): ok i think if you love him that much then you should do it. and only if your ready. and i dont think that it is quite fair that u will let him go down on you but you wont go down on him. i thing that your being selfish. if you love him that MUCH and you are realy ready to make love to him for ur first time then you should be ready to give him a bj that shows love the same way of him going down on you so just thunk of that.
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