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writes: In a very unhappy relationship with partner, which has more or less come to the end. Have dicovered that a friend from old work place has just split up from her husband as well.I have always had feelings for her, and we meet last week just for a general chat, afterwards i discovered i have feelings for her that i never havd had for my current partner.My problem is should i tell her if so how, i don't want to sacre her away has a close friend.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (24 April 2006):
 I would suggest just spending some more platonic time with her to start with. You'll both be a bit sore from your breakups, and could probably do with some relaxed company and friendship. Jumping too quickly from one relationship to another is a good way to carry baggage forward and not learn from the problems of the past.
If you do things like invite her out to nice places, or over to your place to cook for her, and communicate openly with her, then you will know soon enough whether she has romantic feelings for you. Just take it gradually to make sure you are both getting what you want, and try to be as genuine as possible with her.
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