A
female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:I have been talking to this guy who goes to a different school. Because of this and because we're young (can't drive) we never get to see each other we talk loads on the phone and all that but never in person. We have been "friends" for a like 5 months and I have only meet up with him once. Whilst I really like him and he likes me and we talk about making plans all the time we fight because we dont know each other's friends so we don't know if someone is a friend or a potential girlfriend/ boyfriend. Hes a typical boy so he doesn't know how to tell me when he's annoyed about something so I never really know what's going on. We talked about whether it's worth us talking or if we should just stop talking and neither of us could decide so please help should I keep trying with him or just stop talking to him and move on?
View related questions:
move on Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2015): For one thing, if you don't get to see each other much; maybe the time you get to talk shouldn't be wasted fighting.
It might be better if you didn't try to think of him as a boyfriend; because he can't spend much time with you. Not to mention you may be too young for a boyfriend anyway.
Keep talking and enjoying that as much as you can. If you're spending too much time trying to keep-up with him, it's time you start making some new friends you can spend more time seeing and hanging-out with. If moving on will make you feel better, that's definitely what you should do.
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 April 2015):
 so you are talking... why can't you talk?
or are you thinking that talking means you are trying to be boyfriend and girlfriend...
you are correct you two should not attempt dating... but talking... I have friends I rarely see... maybe once a year or so but they are still friends.
...............................
|
