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writes:He says he doesn't want the relationship anymore because his parents will not accept it.He says he doesn't want to get serious because his parents do not approve of love marriage.But he insists we still be friends,meet and talk everyday.I genuinely love him and want to continue with our relationship.How do i make him realise that if loves me we'll make it work and face all odds?I do not want to continue being his friend only to see him getting married to someone else.Should i ignore him to make him realise that he needs me? Reply to this Question
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reader, mistertoshwell  +, writes (20 January 2008):
Been there done that got the t shirt. If he really loves you and wants you he would stand up to his parents.
Its as simple as that. If he does love you and can't stand up to his parents then he is weak and you will become contemptuous of him in time. Forget the friendship thing, he just wants to hedge his bets and make it easier for himself There is no thought for you whatsoever in this.
Look after your self and move on to some one who is willing to walk to the ends of the earth for you never mind tell mum your not going to do what she tells you!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (20 January 2008):
 He has told you the hurdles and the terms of friendship and there is no way he can go against his parents. You either accept him as a friend or you will get hurt later on.
You may make him fall in love with you but in the end , the parents hold sway who he is going to marry and being a filial son , he will listen to his parents and where does that leave you?
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