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51-59,
anonymous
writes:My husband treats my like a queen. However he has lied to me about some very serious issues and some very petty issues.I don't think my husband is sexually cheating on me but I get this gut feeling that something isn't right either. When I get this feeling it actually makes me sick to my stomach and at them times my husband is not himself. My question is Am I crazy or should I go with my gut feeling and invest sometime into finding out what is going on with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): womans intuition rarely lets you down. investigate what he is up to. and don't feel bad about it. just consider yourself blessed with enough insight to realise that something is amiss. if you find out please send us an update. trust your instinct.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 Go with your gut, it will rarely lead you astray.
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reader, trotman68  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 i believe in trusting your gut feeling,these never let you down. I went through the same thing and yes you think your going mad, they say you are going mad, in the end you will not even want to talk to friends about it. You dont need to spend aload of money when you could investigate him yourself. Thats wot i did. I actually enjoyed it. lol. The things is there are curtain things that you should do and they are important really.
We tend to let them know how we are feeling, so you have to say nothing to him what you think. I remember every thing I found out i would pull him on. Well dont as this tells him you are on to him, say nothing now. everything you think of that makes you think this way write down, then sit down and one by one write down why you feel the way you do. write dates and times of everything. you have to get prove and make sure you are 100% sure before you say anything.
Go on-line and and get a download of Christian Carter, its called Catch Him Keep Him. At the end of reading it,he tells you what kits you can buy to help you catch him out. You can even but kits that test their underwear. Let me know the out come and if you need me, im here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): im not sure what to exaclcly say besides that i am in the same boat my boyfriend treats me like a quenn but there is times were he aint his self when we first got together he had lied to me about this other girl since then i have had dtrust issues. Now i check his pockets and i was happy a couple of times because theh first time i found an empty condom wrapper and he told me he picked it up so our daughter wouldnt get so i let that go and about a year later i found an unused wrapper and he lied to my face when i asked him about it he lied to my face and so i told him that i had seen it sos then he said that he was going to give it to his friend becaused he asked for it but at the same time he brought it back so why didnt the friend use it and now it is really hard for me to not think about it i learnd the more you look for it the more u will find the less you think bout less you will find
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reader, young and opinionated +, writes (10 August 2009):
 I feel that gut insticts are usually correct.
However, i do also believe that if you are in a relationshp with someone you should trust them fully. If not, then you should leave them.
Only you know the full story. I hope it all works out good.
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