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writes:I recently broke it off with my boyfriend of seven years. I was 18 when we got together and we lived together the duration of our relationship.I left because I changed and he wasn't what I wanted any more. I am a very sexual person and my needs were not being met. It has only been two weeks but I can't wait to taste my new found freedom. Is that wrong? To put it bluntly I'm VERY horny, a lot of the time, for men and women.I'm self confident, fit, and attractive and I want to experience what I haven't been able to for the past seven years! I've found a single girl, and a couple on craiglist looking for nsa sex. I'm being smart and safe about it but I'm desperate to give this a shot! Has anyone ever had a successful outcome from something like this?
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reader, SexualVixen +, writes (4 September 2011):
Some people seem to think that meeting someone in a nightclub situation is "safer" than meeting thru the internet or Craigslist in particular. I met my husband through an ad I posted in Craigslist Casual Encounters and we are VERY happily married for LIFE :) In addition, I can openly express any sexual urge, desire or fantasy I may have with him, no matter how taboo most would never share with ANYONE and definitely not their husband. The fact that you are able to be completely open about what you so desire and need sexually and even emotionally through the anonymity of the internet, is really what has made this possible for the both of us in our everyday affairs. This is something that really no one is able to do in a face to face meeting because we all put on our best masks in the beginning to attract our partner, it is just plain human nature. The internet has made it possible to bypass this natural flaw in the human race. What is wrong with having "liberal views" on sex and sexuality? You won't find my husband or I and our liberal views in the Casual Encounters section posting ad's because our conservative partners do not satisfy us. We get exactly what we want and need from each other thanks to our seemingly "unnatural" ability to communicate openly without fear. Don't take my word on any of this PLEASE, do a little research, or a lot I should say and come up with your own opinion. Safety should always be something considered in any sexual situation and is MOST important no matter where you go to meet potential partners and ask lots and lots of questions before u take the leap!!... Use your self confidence, it is a great attribute in a woman these days
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I'm certainly not going to meet up with just anyone. I would expect to exchange phone numbers and chat a few times, then meet somewhere for drinks or dinner. I'm not really into the night club scene so......
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): You sound like our kind of girl ;) haha! You'll have more success at a nightclub or swingers party. My wife and I are around the same age as you and go to night clubs to find ourselves a friend like you. Craigslist can be dangerous. I would not recommend it to you. Put on a sexy dress and and go have some fun at a nightclub. My wife and I dress to impress and usually run into someone willing. You'll find something you like. Maybe we'll run into you. ;)
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (3 July 2010):
 If you are self confident and attractive then you will have no problem finding casual encounters. The problem with personal ad columns on websites is that they contain a lot of cranks and weirdo types who would struggle to find a relationship any other way. Keeping safe in such a situation is difficult when you are meeting random strangers with stated liberal views on sex from the internet. You may find yourself in potentially dangerous situations. Surely it would be marginally safer to hook up with people within a swingers club or just an ordinary nightclub where people go to find partners? At least you have some control over the situation you put yourself in then and can say no if what happens isn't to your liking.
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