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writes:Alright, we've been talking for 2 weeks and it's been pretty good and a few times she bought up the past...The past she bought up was way to special. It was how we use to fall asleep together. Im like wooww..but yeah It got my interest back with her, and i decided to ask her to my prom, but she said she needs to think about it..so im thinking in my head..wow..it's probably gonna end up as a no. I also thought i was getting played too..so after i asked im like screw this...shes playing me, so i just told this girl that asked me to prom sure lets go together. So the next day my ex found out and boy..was she pissed...maybe a little bit of jealousy too. Heres the convo:Her: Wooww youre going to prom with her? HA!Me: Call you once i get homeHer : Nope dont call...Me: we really need to talk forget about prom right nowHer: Im at my friend's house, im not talking on the phone.Me: Okay ill text you when i get home then.-3 hours later-She texts me : ....Me: I really want to talk on the phone.Her: No please just textMe: PhoneHer: Im at my friends houseMe: I really want to talk on the phone ___ insert nameHer: K youre going to prom with her i guess so whateverMe: I wanted to go with you but it seemed like a no from the way you were talking to meHer: Not reallyy..i had to think about things but whatever you'll have a great time with her :) Me: Look i dont wanna deal with this now, i wanna talk on the phone, ima go to bed though.Her. Okay goodnighttt- i really didnt go to bed though, just fbed all night and her friend saw me on and 1 hr later she texts me can you just tell me.So guys should i just have a talk with her or what? about us and stuff...cuz im tired of this madness if she's playing games or i dont even know. We broke up 4 months ago and stuff..but yeah advice please :/
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reader, rambini  +, writes (24 April 2010):
 I think you definately need to talk to her, if only to get some clarity on the situation. Explain to her that you wanted her to go to prom with you but she didn't seem keen so you didn't want to push her. but i would be a little wary incase she is just playing games, you dont want to get hurt again.
Talk to her, find out where you stand, and good luck :)
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (24 April 2010):
 I think you need to say to your ex that you are confused about where you stand with her which is why you invited someone else to the prom. Ask her where she sees the two of you going and tell her you hate the hanging on and need some direction.
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