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writes:me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and four months and we broke up about four weeks ago because our relationship had got to a point where we were arguing everyday and nothing was getting solved so we ended up breaking it off to focus on the problems that we both wanted to fix so it could make the relationship go better, now i fixed my problem and he hasent so im ready to be back in the relationship but he is not, so i decided to cut off all contact because i don't know if i could trust his intentions when he had just previously talked to a girl until five in the morning, now he says that he was just helping her out with her problems, and that he does not like her, and this was the only instance that this happened. keep in mind that he has known her longer than he has known me. anyways while were were broken up i had to work on being more distant from him cuz he thinks that i am too obsessed with the relationship and he feels like he has nothing to chase and i guess guys need that. me and him are going to the same college and we both have apartments in the same complex, so were being forced to be near each other even though things might not work out. now my parents dont like him because they say that he has too much to work on and he has intimacy issues, which he does but i dont hold that against him as long as he is trying to show some type of affection because i understand that not everyone is raised the same way and not everyone is comfortable with showing that, but it is killing me because my parents think that he is playing mind games and i dont believe that. he is a very kind hearted person and would do anything for anyone if asked, but i dont know if i should hang on to him or just let go
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): Just let go. hes not worth it. u should spare yourself the pain when it turns out that he does like her.
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reader, BrokeAndHurting19 +, writes (9 August 2010):
Did he tell you he was talking to this girl till 5 or did you find out? if he has told you then you should maybe trust that he is telling the truth. Just do the no contact and if he really loves you, then he will want you back. If he doesn't try to get you back, then he really doesn't love you and isn't worth it right? You sound like you really love this guy, so if YOU think its worth it then hang on and fight for what you want. Don't let others guide you in the wrong path, it's your life.
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