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Should I go see the ex? Look hot? Or just not go?

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Question - (20 May 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

Your Open Question:

Why would he do that? should I still see him? ?

My ex boyfriend's best friend told me my ex's been having a hard time dealing with our break up.. He says he's been drinking and he feels horrible for breaking up with me and that he misses he. So he begged me to call him and tell him to stop drinking.

So I rang him, we talked he told me he's miss me and I told him I miss him too.. I really do, I miss him so much, we were so in love, I don't know why he changed his mind. I was devastated when he dumped me:(

Anyway, I asked him to come see a movie with me next week and he said he'd love to.

I rang him today, He said I should see another guy to help mend my broken heart, I told him I'll be fine on my own. I asked if he's seeing anyone and he said yeah he's seeing this girl but they are not boyfriend and girlfriend.

He said it'll be nice to see me again next week.(Movies) I said I'll let him know if I'll come. Should I look hot and go or not go?

Am not even jealous of him telling me about him and another girl am just

hurt.

We're both 21..x

Thanks..x

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A female reader, Dear Mandy United Kingdom +, writes (20 May 2011):

Dear Mandy agony auntHi

I would go and look DAMN hot :) he probally feels he dont want you back on a sympathy vote, but if you turn up looking hot he will see you have made an effort, and you genuinely want him back, not just because he had a weak moment on the phone with you. He aint met another girl, he just realised that he may have sounded silly and desperate on the phone, that he cant cope with not being with you, so made this girl up. so it would be easier for you to laugh off the phone call you had with him. and give you a chance to back down from the date if you felt obliged to go on it. lookk hot, and when you meet him just tell him you still love him, and why dont you both give it one last shot.

I hope this has helped x

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