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female
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30-35,
*pl
writes:This Wisconsin guy who i had sex with for 2 nights, use me, left me with lots of questions in my mind and made me feel soo confuse will go back here in Philippines' my friend K who was his close friend too told me that he is still asking about me through chatting. I dont get it' he deleted me on his facebook friends and still ask about me to K. On Tuesday he'll be arriving and i dont know what will going to happen.if he will ask me out and he want to talk to me - should i say yes or no? please help me! im trying to move on about what happened to us and yes i'll admit he is still in my head all the time. i dont know what to do' im scared and nervous and CONFUSE! ;(
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reader, Apl +, writes (27 June 2010):
Apl is verified as being by the original poster of the question okay. thank you so much for the advice.i really appreciate it. :)
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reader, sweetiebabes +, writes (26 June 2010):
 If I were you I prefer not to see him again. Listen to your gut feelings. You felt you were used and deleted you in his facebook, do you think he is giving you respect? Stand up for yourself, learn to say NO. What he did to you was a form of disrespect and was using for sex and next time he comes around he will do the same. I am sorry to tell this but I think that is his motives towards you. If he is serious with you, he will initiate contact and get to know you better but he didn't I believe. Please continue to move on, don't look back or else you will be hurt again.
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reader, Blue Sahara  +, writes (26 June 2010):
 I don't think you should contact him or meet up with him. If he deleted you from Facebook but is still asking about you, chances are he is thinking about more sex with you and that's about it. If a guy never contacts you from day to day and then all of a sudden remembers you right when he is coming into town, he isn't thinking about anything serious. He is thinking about the sex you guys had together and is going to try for more.
If he wants to date you he needs to date you. Not ask other people about you and then just show up one day.
I'm sorry to say it cause it is clear he hurt you but I don't think his intentions are good. And, no matter how much he assures you he is honorable, I think he is going to hurt you again.
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