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female
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36-40,
*sladyballa24
writes:I been friends with this girl for 5 years and we have never had any disagreements or fights. Well I introduced her to a friend of mine who wanted to talk to her. So they dated for 3 months before I got into it with her gf. The girl wants to be back my friend but I don't know what to do, because I don't trust her. She's still dating the girl and the girl got her friends to turn against me. I feel as if I be back her friend I'm going to end up getting into something I don't want to get into. I do miss her a lot because she was like a sister. My question is- should I be back her friend or just leave her alone for the sake of my life and future? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): If you feel really uncomfortable with the whole situation, then it might be worth leaving things alone, rather than getting into a situation which might be difficult.
But if you really miss this girl, then could you maybe speak to her alone, and say that you would like to be friends again? You could just arrange to meet up alone every so often, or do things alone together, rather than having the other people there who seem to be causing the friction. It could be that you two get on fine together, but just run into difficulties when the other people are present.
But has this girl given you any signs that she misses you too, and would like to talk to you again? This could help you to decide whether to give it a shot or not.
Good luck. x
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