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male
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anonymous
writes:A few years ago I met this amazing girl, she made me feel better than I ever thought possible. We fooled around a bit but didn't get serious. The last time I spoke to/saw her was about a year and a half ago and ever since then I have thought about her every day and every time I hear her name, my heart races. I'm thinking about trying to get back in touch, but as its been so long I'm not too sure whether it would be a good idea or not. I'm just tired of thinking "what if", but if she's happy I don't want to just appear in her life again and disturb things. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, The old Man?  +, writes (30 January 2009):
 Go for it man!
She just might be thinking about you as well!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): So what if she is happy? What if she's not, though? What about YOUR happiness? If you have been thinking about this girl for the last year and a half, odds are that you are going to keep thinking about her until you at least find out how she is.
There are harmless ways of getting back in touch with her; you don't have to charge into her house or anything. Even calling her after this long might be awkward, unless you two had a history of long phone conversations. Maybe try an email, or look her up on Facebook/Myspace/whatever. You could tell her something reminded you of her, so you thought you'd say what's up. If you take it slowly from there, you will eventually find out if there is a chance for you two. The worst that could happen is that you two were not meant for each other, which could at least bring you closure and perhaps help you to move on. But nothing -- nothing! -- is worse than always wondering what could have been, especially with love.
Best of luck!
Allie
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