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Should I confront him and tell him how I felt?

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Question - (6 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi. Well I've been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months now and a week ago we both decided that we wanted to have sex together. Before we started he told me he has a rape fantasy, but I didn't take any notice really. It was my first time and it was fine at first. It didn't hurt much and he kept asking if I was ok and stuff. Then he started to go faster and quicker and that started to hurt really bad. I asked him to stop and told him he was hurting me, and he lifted up my leg and then bit me. After he was done I was hurting so much I didn't even bother crying

It's been a week and we're still together. I haven't told him how I felt or anything, but I still love him and stuff.

I just wanted to ask, do you think it's best if I confront him and tell him how I felt ?

I told my best friend and she said it's sexual abuse. Is it? I am really confused.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011):

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Erm hi am 15 he's 17 :)

thanks for the advice we talked things through an he apologised and said he was in his own world and he should have been paying atteition to me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2011):

It is sex abuse, pure and simple.

How old is this guy? How old are you?

Look, I'm old enough to be your grandfather, this is wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong.

Don't go around this guy again.

Get help.

Post answers to questions above when you can.

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