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*ottie.X
writes:He used to show interest in me for a year, but I was shy and ignored him even though I liked him too. The next year he started ignoring me back, but he was nice when I was nice to him (last day of school last year I sent a friendly Facebook message and he replied 2 days later with a super nice one) and showed interest when I did but backed off when I did. Though now, after a 2-month long school holiday on the very first day back, when people passed a paper down to me (we all sat in a circle) he ignored it and kept his head down. He also won't look at me directly in a group or individually (just past me), keeps his back to me most of the time when I'm near and just ignores me. Once we walked towards each other and he looked at the ground and widened his eyes ???? I sent him a rose for Valentine's Day but the note (from secret admirer) got lost and he put up an Fb status asking the girl who sent the rose to inbox him and let him know who she is. Should I? To his friend on Facebook he wrote: "I wanna know who she is!! Hopefully she's hot." So he acts this weird around me but wants some random hot girl to be the one who sent him the rose and would go out with her?!?!?! Seriously!? Do you think I should I even tell him? And why does he act like that, like being unable to look at me etc?
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (10 March 2011):
 Maybe he has changed his mind about liking you, or maybe he is confused about why you sent him a rose when you basically acted like you didn't like him for so long.
Hopefully you will get another oportunity to give him the second part of the message. Watch him for signs that maybe he does still like you and remember that a guy is easier to talk to away from the other kids at school.
In the meantime act nice, but don't obsess, the last thing you want to do is to look desperate or stalker girl to him.
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reader, dottie.X +, writes (8 March 2011):
dottie.X is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you GeeGee225! Well I did inbox him and told him it was me who sent the rose. I think he was online the same night after I sent it. He replied the next morning with "Ohh ok. Thanks for that." I didn't reply to that cause I took it as a 'not interested' sign and yeah it hurt. Though the same day he stared at me in class while I'd turned around and was talking to some other girl so I ignored him. After that he's just gone back to acting like I'm not there, or will face away when I'm there sometimes. :( I hate how I like him so much that I just can't move on; like for the last week I've tried really hard to but I always go back to crying over it again. I don't know if I should just talk to him like be friendly? Or try to resolve this? Maybe then I could move on if I have an actual answer. But then we don't talk so idk. Ahhh! What do you think?
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (26 February 2011):
Well it would be one way to break the ice and get the ball rolling again. And he seems to like you too so I think its worth a shot.
He probably would have talked to you more and maybe even asked you out by now if you had given him more encouragement. Guys are just as afraid of being rejected as we are.
After you tell him it was you explain to him that you always thought he was nice and cute that it was just your shyness holding you back.
Good Luck!
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