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writes: My b/f is away for a few days--not really for partying-he had to get something done. I didn't go(long story) Anyway--he went with his friend. One night he goes to the bars that are in that area with him and i went out as well. I spoke to him for about 20 minutes when he was in the first bar. An hour later I am in a cab going home and feel a little bit sleepy from the drink so i call him to talk and stay awake. The first two times--no answer..i try again(i usually wouldnt try this many time but i guess when just having a few drinks, i get more emotional than usual lol). I try again--and he picks up..He said him and friend are in the car trying to find their way back to the hotel. I heard his friend next to him so that is fine. I eventually ask--you didnt get my other calls, i just called you and at first he said he didn't hear it and then was like no i didn't get them. We are talking for a few minutes when all of a sudden he says--i will call u back in a second..i say ok..20 minutes pass--he doesnt call back..i call him him and leave a message and a text. close to an hour later he calls back--saying he didn't forget me--that there was a cop car behind them--they were hitting a speed trap and then they saw another bar and just decided to go in and he left his phone in the car. I really thought it was weird but I know his friend was there so i can't really imagine what would go on with his friend there. He said he wasn't going to go back to his car just to get the phone and just said to himself he would call in a little bit..I got angry with him and told him it was weird. He got angry of course and said what do you think i am doing? When he called back they were pretty much almost at the hotel. I guess i am paranoid thinking--they met some girls in the first bar and decided to meet at a second bar or something but if he called me while at the hotel and i hear his friend right next to him--i shouldnt worry too much right? What do you guys think?
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reader, Mother hen +, writes (5 June 2006):
Please RELAX!!! this type of behaviour will drive him away. you need to trust him, if this is a one time event. If this happens a lot, then you have to rethink your relationship. You need to trust him and he needs to feel trusted otherwise he will start to cheat just because "its expected". people cando weird things, they live up to what's expected of them, except him to be faithful and he will. Again if this happens often, then you need to rethink your relationship. Give him space and let him explain what happened and welcome him home, you want him to be happy to come back to you, dont you? You catch more "fly's with Honey than with Vinegar"
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2006): i know how you feel. i'll call my girlfriend and she wont pick up for a couple hours and then i worry and its really nothing bad at all. if he's never cheated on you then i wouldnt really worry that much. i over react to a lot of things when its really nothing. i worry myself sick sometimes over nothing. you shoud just sit down and have a talk and ask him what all's going on and make sure ya'll both love each other and if it was meant to be then it'll work.
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