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36-40,
*rixy22
writes:i work with this guy he is 22 i am 26. i find him very handsome, we get along good at work. we hung out with a group of people last week had some fun so then this week i asked if he wanted to grab some food after work, and i never heard from him. should i be worried that he is just not that into me? what should i do? you might also want to know that there is talk at work about this other girl and that she either likes him or that they are hooking up, or that they are just good friends, but no one knows for sure. what do i do please help??????
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reader, xanthic +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Don't ask about the other girl unless it's appropriate to casually ask if he's dating anyone (i.e. if he shows more interest and you want to show you're interested as well), otherwise you'll come across as jealous.
However, never getting a reply when asking someone out, whether it's a date or not, is a clear sign he's just not interested. The best thing to do is move on and find someone new rather than wait for him to come around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2010): Ask whereabouts your reply is,
who this other women is,
But be nice about it,
then tell him that the reason you invited him out was so that you could get to know him more because you would like that, this maybe the time to let him know that you are interested in him, cause us males run around with out eyes closed missing all the signals. Plus nothing is sexier than a girl just being honest about them likeing you. So this may lead him to think about this other women if she is even in THE actual equation. IF not at things dont go the way as we planned, i've sat through time when this has happend and funny enough they always come back.. what goes around comes around, smile about it.
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