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writes:should i be over the fact that i was molested? ok, ill keep this short. i was sexually molested from the age of 6-9 and then again by a different man from age 12-16 (This stopped about 3months ago). i would like to know if you think i should be over the molestation by now or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blondiebrooke69  +, writes (26 May 2010):
Definitly not ...with time u will ..dont be a victim it will carry with u and make u have low self esteem and feel depressed if u do...trust me its hard as hell to get thru but it wasnt ur fault and u need to understand that and move on otherwise ur giving these guys power over you ...thats exactly wat they want... so please get help, tell someone, grieve, then move past this ...im so sorry u had this awful experience but u will get better :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2010): Are you SERIOUSLY asking that question??? Being over something like that lies within you, not what society thinks. There is no right or wrong answer. Something like that usually stays with you for a long time. I was molested when I was a little girl it went on for a number of years. I'm 21 now and I still deal with it every day. It takes time...
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reader, cnith +, writes (26 May 2010):
 No. You shouldn't be over it. No one ever gets over it. It will always haunt you. BUT you can cope with it. Go talk to a counselor. I hope you have the courage to go to the police and get those men arrested. They deserve to die for what they did to you.
I know a little about this. I don't remember what happened but I know it happened. I can't say much more than that.
I do know you need to talk to a professional about it so they can help you live life.
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