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writes:So My fiance is probably pregnant as you probably heard in the last question, sorry if i bug you guys. But she says that if shes pregnant she wants to get married before we have the baby. I would marry her tommorow if i could, but id rathernot have her pregnant when we get married, i mean i just want her to look and feel her best on our day. So i dont know weather to tell her that or just go along with the wedding the way she wants it. What should i do?
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reader, Inumuro +, writes (11 August 2008):
Inumuro is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, I will talk to her about it but i belive you have givn me some very good resolutions, thanks so much all of you, all thats left is to tell the parents lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): If you really, truly, want to to marry her and she really, truly wants to marry you, then do it and respect the fact that she would prefer to be married before your baby is born. I feel your comment about "I just want her to look and feel her best on the day" say more about you than her. Pregnancy bumps can certainly be hidden for quite a long time and that's down to her to dress appropriately. Understandably you would both probably prefer not to look back on photographs where your bride is sporting a large melon! From a woman's point of view, feeling your best is about what's going on in your head and heart, not just about what you're wearing. If she is secure in your love and she knows that marrying her and starting a family with her are the most important things to you, she will always feel special. I wish you good luck!
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reader, LIERIN +, writes (11 August 2008):
 I would get marryed in just register office .. just to be married before the baby is born and than have a big real wedding after the baby is born
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (11 August 2008):
 Well as someone who got married whilst pregnant I wouldnt recommend it. I felt enormous (24 weeks pregnant), I didnt look or feel my best, it was a very long tiring day and the honeymoon was too hot (45 degrees on a good day) and not what I would call a honeymoon!! If she is only just pregnant and you can arrange it quick, if its what you both want, then do it before she shows. Otherwise why not just plan it and book it for a date after baby is born x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 August 2008):
Why not skip on down to the registry office and have a quiet wedding with just parents / best friends.
Then after the baby is born you can have a huge reception / blessing on your first anniversary.
Talk to her and find out what she really wants. She may just be nesting and want to be married so it's off her mind and done with and she's not an "un married mother"
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): dont marry for the sake of the child being born out of weedlock,marry for love thats all the reason you need
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