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writes:There's a girl I know that I like. I think she liked me like a month ago but I'm really bad at that stuff and didn't really think. Anyway, I want to tell her I like her as more than a friend But I'm having trouble with that.This girl is great. She has a lotta things in common with me, we can talk for hours about nothing (like our last names!), she's smart, everything. The problem is that she gets so much attention from guys. I assume it has to get to her, all these kids asking her out at least once a week probably. I can't bring myself to ask her out now, because I'll just look like the others who want to get in her pants.Of course I know she's hot as heck. But I can honestly say I fell in love with who she is. Even I can see through the guys that like her. She usually contacts me first but still. It makes me wonder if she needs a friend more than a boyfriend because lately she seems to be sad all the time. I dunno what to do. I don't want to lose the opportunity but I don't wanna contribute to this at the same time.
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reader, btj +, writes (1 November 2010):
btj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for the answers. It's good to get a different range of them. Yesterday, we talked for 5 and a half hours and it was great. Let's see how it goes...
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (30 October 2010):
 Getting too much attention from guys huh?? Hot as heck huh?? Tss..tss. I don't think she is the right girl for you man, you sound like a nice guy and from my experience this type of girl is too self-centered, confused, selfish and arrogant due to the extreme level of attention. If she is hot as you say then trust me she knows it too well!! This gives her enormous power to mess up with men minds just by wispering something sweet in your ear! This type of girl also needs as much attention as possible to satisfy her ego and boost her confidence even more. I hope i am wrong though and i hope if you make your move that she responts with the same enthousiasm as you. Please update us what happens. Best wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): When I was young, I was very pretty. Guys made all kinds of moves on me, but they all just wanted me because of how I looked. I was very lonely and rarely dated. I would have loved knowing that there was a guy that liked me for who I was.
Tell her how much you enjoy talking with her, etc. Ask her if she would want to go to the zoo or something where you can just walk around and talk. Just hang out; don't try to go to a typical "date type" place Good luck!
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