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writes:I know this girl through a friend. I met her about 8 months ago in a party. We partied hard that night. I really like her. She knows that i like her. I have told her through texts. I dont see her very often and we text each other quite frequently. I have already asked her out but she said she wants to stay single. She had just broken up with her ex when i met her. I think she had been broken up with her ex about a year ago now. She keeps saying its not me she just wants stay single. because of bad relationships she wants to stay single. i had asked her for lunch before and she said no and she said she will not go with me alone. and recently i asked her for lunch and she agreed. we went out for lunch but two of her other mates cam along too. one guy and one girl. Those three are good friends. i didnt ask her why they came. Is that a coincidence or did she plan it so that she doesnt go with me alone. Sometimes i think she likes me too. sometimes we talk about dreaming about each other. i have dreamt about her few times and have told her about it but she didnt say anyting. she was quite interested about the story. she dreamt about me once or twice i think and she told me about it. i said to her "u know the reason i dreamt about you, why r u dreaming about me?" she said she doesnt know. so does she like me. what should i do. should i ask her face to face. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): I think you should send her a letter telling her how you feel.
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reader, cuteblonde124  +, writes (3 November 2008):
 oh okay, well try asking her for a real date. like a dinner and a movie. dazzle her
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think when she said she doesnt wanna go alone with me she meant to say that : that would mean its a date... i think...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think when she said she doesnt wanna go alone with me she meant to say that : that would mean its a date... i think...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAppreciate the help... i will do my best to follow the advise.
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reader, cuteblonde124 +, writes (3 November 2008):
okay this girl is sending mixed signals! first off she doesnt like being alone with you, did you do something to scare her off? second after a year she should of moved on, unless it was an abusive relationship, which could be the reason she doesnt want to be alone with you. try asking her friends whats going on, and if she is dreaming about you, well thats a good sign. you dream about what you think of last! keep us posted!!
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reader, me:] +, writes (3 November 2008):
Sounds to me like she's playing the "leading you on" game.
I have a few friends who are like this. They say theres this guy who wont really likes me but i dont like him and i dont wanna be rude so Im really nice. The fact that she brought 2 friends on your lunch means she is probably uncomfortable with you alone and doesnt know how to tell you. Im just being honest even though it may not be what u wanna hear. And maybe you should ask her to her face if she likes you and if shes is willing to commit to you, if she really likes you then she will.
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reader, krissa +, writes (3 November 2008):
Well to me it seems she hasent gained full trust of you yet. I mean you two met at a party and girls usually think guys at partys just want to get in your pants. The reason why she wants to have her friends with her when she is around you is because she dosent truth you yet. Just try ganing her truth and maybe she will take the boy friend girl friend thing into concideration
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