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Should a best friend of 2 years be telling people all my secrets behind my back?...

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Question - (27 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 September 2008)
A female New Zealand age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Lately, me and my best friend have been on and off having fights. She keeps on accusing me of "Mood swings" but i dont get how? Once, we were about to have a huge test, it was super important and i couldn't find my notes, i was so scared and anxious for the upcoming test, she called me a phyco behind my back because i was neverous! She tells people all my secrets, she says she doesn't mean to, but once i walked into class and she was telling people all about my BF (i didn't want people to no, becuase gossip spred faster than venom) to all these gossips (you know, the one that would stalk your BF so that they can have him insted of you). And thats not the first time! i told her to stop and she said it 'accidenty slipped out', but she still does it, and when i try to tell her to stop she yells at me and tells me to 'get over it'. Help?? what should i do??

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A male reader, sad sack Canada +, writes (27 September 2008):

Hey there

It is really bad when someone you consider a friend starts to ridicule you and mess with your head.

I guess my advice to you would be get more friends and slowly move away from this girl who does not seem to care for this friendship as much as you do.

There has to be respect which is lacking.

Since I figure you are emotionally weak, you need to do things gently and overlook the way she treats you only so you can move on gracefully without breaking down.

There is no worse feeling than being ignored and lonely.

Sad Sack

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