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writes: I've known of this girl since October last year, we both joined a musical group near where I live, and have been rehersing every week.Finally it is the 2 weeks of the show, and out at one of the social events, me and her get to talking. I find out she lives near me, and we go to the same college, we're into the same things, fair enough.Eventually, she realises I'm single, and says 'I cant beleive someone as nice as you is single!', fair enough. Then she decides she's going to try and get me a girlfriend, which i dont mind, I've been single for about a month now, I'd really like to get into a good, solid relationship.Last night had a matinee show and an evening show, with a lunch in between, and a party after the evening show.At the lunch we sat together and talked about life and things, and I found out a lot about her.At the party we were talking more, having a few drinks. I went through to talk to one of my friends, and to get another drink, and out the corner of my eye, i saw her talking to her ex. I know they are friends, and shes just a friend, but i felt jealous. Then it hit me, the girl trying to set me up is really the perfect girl for me. I dont know what to do. I want to tell her, but i know she's not available, she has a boyfriend but they are growing distant.The show starts again tomorrow, but after that I dont know if I'll really see her, and the thought is scaring me. I spent all last night in bed thinking about her.I really dont know what to do. Someone please help...Thanks for reading, and sorry for the long explination...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2006): Aww you sound really sweet and I think if you do keep in contact with her shes gonna realize this. If her and her boyfriend are growing distant, thats a really good chance for you to step in and show her that you are the one. Good luck!
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reader, wookiee's girlfriend +, writes (26 February 2006):
 i agree with smeedle (above). if you want to keep in touch, then mobile numbers and emails are good - especially if she thinks you are just a friend because friends do it too. eventually get closer then when you know for sure that she is the one, ask her what she feels. remember, she may feel the same about you and might be waiting for you to make the first move.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (26 February 2006):
 Tell her that you find her company good and that you would like to keep in touch with her, if you do this and get to be friends then in time you may become closer.
Give her your number and take hers, ask if she has an e-mail address, this way you can keep in touch.
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