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writes: I am 15 and have never kissed a girl properly but I told my friends I have. I don't think they believe me but never mind. The thing is there's this girl who has liked me for ages, like 4 yrs, and still does. I would love to lose my fridgedness with her but she is way more experienced than me and I don't want her to laugh at me or something when I say I haven't actualy done this before. No, I am not one of those computer geeks, but I'm just shy about those sort of things. She's asked me out before and sent me txts like "hallo gawgus, would u kiss me under the mistle toe" (it was almost Christmas and she was pissed at a party). When she is pissed she doesn't seem to care what she says and has asked me many times out this way.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (21 June 2006):
 Its not really about your friends as they are not going to be there giving you marks out of 10 on kissing technique. If this girl likes you THEN SHE LIKES YOU...she isn't going to care about your kissing technique that much, and she won't know you are a kissing virgin unless you tell her. If you do get into a situation where you are going to kiss her, just latch onto those lips and go with the flow...there is no expert technique...some people are great at kissing and some people are awful...and some people never improve from being awful. At 15, you are not 'frigid', you are just nervous about the opposite sex and that is ok - being nervous shouldn't stop you getting to know a girl you think you like however.
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