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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I have a girlfriend who has a huge sex drive but almost a childlike emotional state of mind. She's all for having lots of hardcore kinky sex which is good, but her romantic side is so low it makes me seem like a woman. What gives? I'm at the end of my rope.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (10 June 2012):
 Hi, You guys are at a pretty young age where the experimenting and wanting to figure out yourself is very real. Perhaps you have just matured a bit faster than she has. I tend to agree with Foot-in-Mouth, a relationship needs to be fulfilled both emotionally and physically...having just the physical side satisfied will leave it empty and you need that thing that is missing. Try initiating the romance yourself, flowers, long walks or simply talking. Another idea is that.....does she know you want romance. Most girls because the majority of guys are like sex monkey nymphos....they think they need to be porn stars to satisfy them...try letting her know that you don't need all the porn like sex and drama all the time, sometimes you just want the intimacy and the pillow talk. See what she says..All the best
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reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth  +, writes (9 June 2012):
 You must consider whether you can live long term with someone who fulfills only your physical needs and not your emotional ones. Because in a relationship, romance and sentimentality are important. They lend a sense of contentment and fulfillment. Sex can be had anywhere, but love is hard to come by. Can you live like this?
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