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She's been my best friend for 9years..so do I risk it all and tell her I want to date her?

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Question - (12 February 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Hi there, i have a bit of a dilemma and i really need help. My best freind who i am completely in love with has told me that she is going away for 3 months in june. The thing is that im happy for her to go but can't help thinking i should tell her how i feel...We have been best freinds for 9 yrs and she is a star.

shes had boyfriends..i have had girlfreinds but they never seem to work out for us..we always end up comforting each other but we have never kissed or anything..Her last boyfreind wass a complete jerk who made her do things she didnt want to and cheated on her..this made me so so mad as i know that if she was mine id never hurt her and would do my best t make her happy

the question is do i tell her how i feel and risk losing my best freind...and if i do tell her when would be the best time

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A female reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 February 2006):

auntie claire agony auntdear reader i do think you need to open up to her may-be not jump right in and tell her your in love with her but put it in a way of asking her the question "how would she feels if you felt more for her" don't scare her into thinking your trying to trap her its not always the case of loosing a friend because you have opened up you just need to know how to put the situation across

it sounds like she comfortable with you anyway so it shouldn't be too hard for her to listen

i hope it goes the way you want i wish you good luck xxx

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