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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Basically I had a relantionship with a girl for 2 years and 3 months. Im really in love and I even wanted to marry her. She went to study to the states for 3 years. Before leaving we found out that she lost the physical attraction of the relantionship so we went to a psichologist to help us. That was about 2 months ago. We have now almost 1 month apart and talking everyday on the phone. On sunday she asked me for some time off saying that her physical attraction is not back, and she wants to get it back. Until now she has not called me or anything. Im crazy for her and I want her to realize that she loves me or that the physical attraction returns and she calls me. This is the first time we take a break. Over there in college she has made new friends and sort of a new life too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): I dont think you are going to like my answer, but i think you should stop talking to her on the phone and move on. You are both young with the rest of your lives ahead of you. I will be hard at first but you will meet someone who appreciates you for the lovely person that you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe has not come back, her physical attraction faded after we fought a lot and were together before she left. So we decided to work on that to see if it came back. Now she is studying away and has already about 1 month there and she asked for some time off, because although she wants the physical attraction from her to me to come back, it hasnt come back yet.
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