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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:She was paid to go out with me, then I found out and after I did she said some mean things then she started going out with another girl after she told me she was straight. A couple of weeks later she dumped her girlfriend and asked me out again. I said yes but I don't believe she actually likes me. I'm trying to figure out what's going on. Sometimes when I send her messages she replies other times she doesn't. Just what is her deal? What's going on? Is she going through a phase or messing around again or actually like me? I need help!I'm REALLY trying to get over this girl cuz I like her. I know she did something bad, what can I do to just forget about her? How do I get her outta my head? Reply to this Question
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reader, kittikat +, writes (30 November 2008):
 Honey, she sounds like she's really immature- too immature to date...You guys are so YOUNG! Don't worry, I'm not trying to pick on you, this behavior is pretty typical at your age, but you have the added complication of sexual identity issues- she may or may not be homosexual, she may not even know, but that's not for you to worry about :-) You worry about you! I think that for your own sanity you need to move on with your life. NO ONE here can tell you a sure fire way to get her out of your head, and you most likely won't be able to just "forget" about her- but in my opinion you should avoid her. It's just drama and it's causing you pain. Try to get involved with some new things in your life to help occupy your time- it may just help open you up to new people and experiences, more positive experiences. She sounds like a toxic friend and nobody needs that at any age!
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