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writes:Ive been in a serious relationship with my gf for almost 3 years now, out of which 1 year we had a long distance relationship as i was studying out of the country. Ever since i got back i haven't been able to find anything the 2 of us can do alone. I constantly find that we're just getting bored coz all we do is sit at each others houses n watch tv or a movie or have sex, and when we do go out its with a group of either my or her friends. She wants to feel loved she says and she did point out the fact that we cant spend more than 4 hours alone together b4 getting bored. Could some1 help me with some ideas? I really do love her and want to show her that i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): my bf and i have been dating for four years and moved in together last year…things do get stale sometimes, but that's when BOTH of you have to make an effort…she has to put in some work too…what if you were feeling neglected? make her dinner/give her a long massage/go out for a long walk…somewhere secluded, hold hands, tell her how much she means to you…write it down, rub her hair through your hands and look her in the eyes and give her a nice long kiss :)
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reader, Henna  +, writes (4 April 2009):
I myself was part of a long distance relationship and i think it has a HUGE effect on how the relationship turns out. But i believe that one should understand the complications which come from being in a long distance relationship, understand that it DOES have an effect and then work to build the relation to what it was earlier. I don't have any advice on how to be able to have conversations and good times together because i always believe that with the right person even silences and doing nothing is comfortable...but i just wanted to say that keep in mind that long distance has an effect so keep working at your relation and hopefully good things will happen.
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