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She wanted to go to the next level, I refused, and now she "hates" me

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Question - (23 July 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Along time ago a close friend of mine started coming on to me and one night while talking to her she was really tryig to get me to get down with her. Knowing her past and all the guys she got with I played it off giving her the hit that I was cool with what she wanted to do. Well after that night she hated me ever sence and my whole thing was that we were like brother and sister and I really cared for her as a friend. Plus when some friendships go to the next level things might go wrong and not only do you lose a girl/boyfiend you lose your best friend in the process. Am I wrong for not taking her offer and saying to hell with my friend and her felling and what the out come may be.

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (25 July 2006):

Angelicc agony auntYour very welcome, your choice was a hard one but i have all respect out to you for making it. Friendship is sometimes more important then your desires.

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A male reader, Lostandalone United States +, writes (24 July 2006):

Lostandalone agony auntI agree. You took the high road and thats hard to do in this case. I applaud you for your effort in holding on to the friendship. Relationships come and go but a true friendship lasts forever.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2006):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks Angelicc

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (24 July 2006):

Angelicc agony auntI think you made a decsion that you felt was right in your heart. so if you think it was right to save your friendship instead of throwing yourself into a relationship that probarbly would of end badly and be the end of your friendship. Then you did the right thing

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