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*eartbreakingmom
writes:He says it was just sex but I found a card she wrote love you and it's been a year since their affair and she still calls his phone late at night, it seems every three months what should I do? Should I believe him when he says it's over and it was just sex? Life over the year has been good until she calls what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2008): Sounds as if this person is trying to create trouble. Don't let her achieve in her mission. Ask your husband to phone her with you sitting beside him. Ask him to tell her to stop contacting him, to warn her that should she not adhere to his request, he will get an interdict against her and or advise her husband about her harrasment. Then ignore her.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (19 December 2008):
 Leave it alone for awhile.....but if she continues to call later, after he's asked her to stop it, then you might consider calling her husband to let him know. Good luck.
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reader, heartbreakingmom +, writes (14 November 2008):
heartbreakingmom is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice I did ask him what's up why is she calling . His reply was they where co workers and they would see each other at work even though it was over they still saw each other at work from time to time and now he,s at a new job and she just wanted to cause problems to which she has.He told me he loves me he loves his family and wants nothing to do with her.My husband is a trades man and does side jobs and has for years and we need that money ,so he can,t change that number there is to many contacts on it. So he says he told her to stop calling and loose the number.Now she also is married and I wonder about her husband should I call and let him know or just leave it alone I want to move on she just won't go away!
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reader, Sweet-thing +, writes (14 November 2008):
I'd be worried! It may have "just been sex" for him, but it wasn't for her. And if she's still calling him a year later that means he never told her to get lost. My guess is, they're still having sex, or he keeps her on a string, "just in case" he gets in the mood. Maybe it's time for him to change his number. How hard can that be? Then the calls will stop for sure and you'll feel like it's really over.
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