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36-40,
*hatQueen25
writes:Okay, here goes..I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 years. Three years ago we broke up for about 3 weeks..we were fighting a lot! He moved in with a friend and during this break up he slept with another girl, a girl we knew mutually (she is well known in our small town for sleeping around) Anyway he slept with her while we were broke up. We got back together and haven't had any problems since that incident 3 years ago. The girl he was sleeping with sent me a friend request on a friends web site and apologized to me and stated that she was young and dumb and has since became a mother and grown up..I can't get over this I am like obsessed with her, I can't stand her!! Yet I want to keep up with her life..like I have to look at all her recent pictures to see if her looks have changed..etc. I don't know what to do the truth is I have tried to get over this and move on I just can't this girl seems genuinely sorry and wants to be m friend (she doesn't have many) and I just can't stand her!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2009): I'd say don't give her a chance. She only does that because she's desperate and lonely. But underneath all that she's still that scheming homewrecker. People like her rarely change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): you can forgive her and move on. you don't need to have her in your life, doing that is like some sadistic part on your side. just tell her it is in the past and forgive but that is where it ends. if you keep you in your life you will not move on. this will continue to fester until you erupt. what good will this do. just allow yourself to move on and away from her.
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